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Using
Your Dreams as Touchstones
Miss Foley sits on the floor
in front of a semi circle of six year olds. "What do you dream of being
when you grow up?" she asks the pony tail wearing girls and freckle faced
boys.
Bryan doesn't hesitate, "I
am going to be a firefighter
like my Uncle Gregg. He is SOOOO brave and his truck is SOOOO cool!"
Kayla smiles, eyes clear
as a bell, "I am going to be a movie
star!" She laughs and adds, "I might be a movie star before
I grow up."
The other children respond
with their future careers being as diverse as Gold
Medal winning figure skater for Charlene and professional baseball
player for Todd.
As Bryan, Kayla, Charlene
and Todd grow and develop, they may realize that these dreams are indeed
lofty. They may achieve these particular dreams, or these dreams may be
out of reach.
Entering adulthood, they
have several choices: they can follow the lead of author Napolean
Hill and decide to:
"Cherish
your visions and your dreams as they are the children of your soul; the
blue prints of your ultimate accomplishments."
They may look deep within their
initial dreams and literally give birth to even more powerful, life changing,
community and world altering visions. Or, they can decide that dreams are
impossible. Not for them.
Todd is attracted to bravery,
physical prowess, adrenalin pumping, challenging experiences. If not winning
the world series in the ninth inning of the seventh game, he could follow
a career path or create a lifestyle incorporating those experiences. He
could rock climb, or hang glide, or teach rock climbing or hang gliding.
He could teach baseball. He could play on a community team. He could work
as a stock broker, or an attorney, or a teacher in a tough neighborhood
inspiring students to living full and complete lives.
Think for a moment: how could
he express the qualities that made him aspire to be a professional baseball
player?
As a teen, I had the desire
to be the next Carly Simon.
As I grew older, I literally fell asleep to that possibility. I would
certainly never be as tall as she is, nor would I marry a rock star like
her, nor would I form a singing group with my sister.
What I did do, though, is
realize what it is about my favorite
singer that I could emulate
through my life. Carly Simon had a horrible stutter and awful stage
fright. To combat this, she sang. She started with her sister, Lucy, as
the duo "The Simon Sisters." She parlayed this into a solo career, singing
her way out of her speech impediment.
She did not rest on the laurels
of being heir to a publishing empire. She created her own persona.
She was surrounded with successful artistic people. Her sister Joanna is
an accomplished opera singer, sister Lucy went on to compose music for
Broadway musicals and her brother, Peter is a photographer.
I can apply these lessons
to my life as you can too. I can do
those tasks which are the
most fear inducing in order to minimize them, eventually erasing them by
continuing to meet them face to face instead of running from them.
I can continue to work on my craft, writing even when I don't feel like
it, using my eraser a lot, and finding opportunities to meet and surround
myself with other people who are writing, speaking,
and coaching.
I am now a regular at open
mic night at Barnes and Noble here in Bakersfield. This has been an incredibly
fulfilling experience: reading my work for an audience gives me that immediate
response. Powerful. Life changing. Magnetic.
Dreams draw us forward, towards
an even more fulfilling, joyful and abundant life. Dreams build bridges
between where we are now and where we can be in the future whether that
means tomorrow, six months from now or ten years from now. Fueling our
inner drive, they make our feet light, our tasks exciting instead of burdensome
and our hopes infinitely possible.
Have you revisited your dreams
lately? Have you carefully examined what they are beckoning you towards?
In the words of Henry David Thoreau, "Dreams are the touchstones of our
character." What are your touchstones calling you to be today?
Click
here to find the career of your dreams
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by Julie Jordan
Scott
Julie Jordan
Scott is a Certified Life Purpose Coach who works with action oriented,
creative people who are ready to live each moment with passion. Dare
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