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Things
to Remember if You're Laid Off
Monday morning. You arrive
at the office, coffee in hand, ready for the week of work ahead. However,
something is wrong.
There is a strange feeling
in the office. Everyone looks stressed, rumors are buzzing, and a company
meeting has been called for 9 a.m. Next thing you know, you and your co-workers
are out of a job.
"Excuse me?" you think. "Isn't
this the company that just six months ago promised me stock options, huge
payoffs and job security if I came and worked for them?"
There is a revolution happening
almost as rapidly as the previous ".com" one. You could call it the ".Bomb".
Finding yourself laid-off in your twenties, not even getting a chance to
opt for the early retirement package, and you only have 35 more years of
work to go.
What do you do? How do you
cope when the company you've given your life to says so long?
You cannot control getting
laid off. There is nothing you could have done. However, you can control
your reaction to it. Truth be told, being laid off may feel worse than
being fired, because the feeling of helplessness is overwhelming.
"What could I have done to
avoid this?" you might ask yourself.
The answer is "nothing".
You have choices about how
you are going to handle this. You can turn a negative experience into a
positive one. If you think right and act right you have the opportunity
to gain more than you lose.
Rethink your career path,
pick up a book about career choices such as What
Color is Your Parachute? and test yourself on what you really want
to do.
Make a choice, then go with
it. Go with it with more fire than you've ever had before.
Don't jump back into the
same industry if you aren't willing to take the risk again. If you are
up for the challenge, approach it better than the first time.
Scott's top 10
things to remember if you're laid off:
1. It's nothing personal
2. Nothing you did
caused it
3. There is nothing
you could have done to avoid it
4. Things always happen
for a reason
5. You have been given
an opportunity to rethink your career path
6. There are plenty
of other jobs out there
7. Work is only a part
of your life
8. You control your
reaction
9. Allow yourself to
mourn the loss of a job
10. Indulge in your
passions
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